They say that marriage is bliss—for the first year or so. After that,
the boiling passion of most newlyweds cools down into a simmer. This is
not to say that the couple is too used to each other, or is losing
interest. It is simply the result of life taking over, schedules being
set and met, and routines falling into place. While some couples are
happy with their lives during this time, others feel that the newlywed
phase ended too soon.
One part of this slowing down for newlyweds
and couples is that busy schedules do not allow for the blissful times
of the honeymoon days. Making time for intimacy can be difficult, even
in the best of situations. Sometimes, a little bit of extra sex is all
you need to feel like that newlywed couple once more. For those couples
that want to feel like newlyweds again, young and old, here are some
sex tips to spice up your marriage.
1. Go buy a sex tips book. This
may seem like an odd tip for this piece, but it is the best advice to
give. Sex tips books are very explicit and will give you and your
spouse a chance to explore what you both like in (or out) of the
bedroom.
2. Rent or buy some soft pornography. Sex tips books are
great, but sometimes you learn better from seeing than reading. When
you and your spouse watch the movies, look at the positions and make
sure that you mention any that you might like to try.
3. Take time
for each other whenever possible. Get the idea out of your head that
sex must happen at night in the bedroom. The best sex tip you will ever
get is this—if you get the opportunity to be intimate with your
partner, take it!
4. Make a date. Who says you can’t date after
marriage? If you feel like your marriage is getting horribly dull, make
a date with your spouse. Go out to dinner and a movie, hit the club, or
go bowling. By the time you get home, you will feel like you did when
you first got married. Since you are both going to be relaxed and in
the mood for some fun, use this time to try out some sex tips out of
that book mentioned earlier, or pop in a movie.
5. One of the best
sex tips for lonely housewives of overworked husbands is to do
something unexpected to gain their attention. Sometimes working hard
gets in the way, and we don’t see that we are leaving our spouse out of
our lives. Put a risqué picture or sexy note in his briefcase or
wallet. You will be sure to gain his attention and affections by the
time he comes home to a nice candle light dinner for two. |
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