Frankly speaking flirting is an art and you need special skills to
master it. You do not have to be some beauty queen or a celebrity to
make guys fall for you and go gaga over you. All you need is your
gorgeous smile and few guaranteed flirting tips like the ones you'll
find below to attract the opposite sex.
Rule 1 # Eyes have it all:
Lock
eyes with the person you're flirting with for a full five to six
seconds, then smile and drop your gaze. Please don't stare at him and
make him feel embarrassed. Just give him a soft smoldering look and
look away. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute
period. This way you will make him know that you are interested and
approachable.
Rule 2 # Smile:
Smiling is absolutely the
most effective tool in your flirting toolbox. Psychology and body
language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do
to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile.
Rule 3 # Expose your neck:
One
of the most winning flirting techniques a woman can use is the exposure
of her neck. This can be done with a head tilt to one side, the classic
hair flip or the over-the-shoulder glance. According to body language
experts this asymmetrical position attracts attention, exposes your
neck, and makes a woman very attractive and sexy. The over-the-shoulder
move also sends a signal to your target that he is worth a second look.
Rule 4 # Lip Service:
Both
men and women are subconsciously attracted to red, moist lips because
they signal youth, sex and fertility. Always wear a red lipstick which
not only gives your lips that youthful colour, but also makes your
smile more visible and your teeth whiter. A super-shiny lip gloss can
also give you an advantage, making your lips look moist and kissable.
Rule 5 # Focus, Focus, Focus:
Once
you and your flirting target have started talking, use these tips to
deepen the attraction. First, smile and maintain eye contact as you are
speaking, and focus all of your attention on what he is saying. If you
aren't listening then that shows that you are not interested. Smiling
and laughing are crucial here - it's the quickest, easiest way to put
another person at ease and make a connection. Finally, another
effective flirting technique is low-level touching such as brushing the
shoulder or elbow.
"We forget that forgiveness is greater than
revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the
actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them". -- Mother Teresa |
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