This is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the
basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more
advanced techniques.
The basics
1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and
fresh, before meeting the other person. There’s nothing worse than
kissing the rear end of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can’t kiss if your back
feels like it’s gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy
sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don’t cause pain.
Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the
side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don’t bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don’t bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes.
Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the
mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person’s lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her
tongue, slowly explore the other person’s tongue in a light licking
motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you’ve tried lightly licking the other person’s tongue,
you can try [how wude!]ing on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it
to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don’t bite. whatever you do, don’t bite.
13. Don’t swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don’t drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly
rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back,
the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running
your fingers through her hair. Again, don’t cause pain.
16. Continue kissing.
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